Intimacy Counselling for Couples in Victoria, BC
& Online
Reconnect emotionally, physically, and energetically.
What Intimacy Really Means
True intimacy isn’t just physical. It’s emotional, psychological, and energetic closeness — the ability to be deeply seen, and to see your partner fully.
For many couples, the demands of life, unresolved conflict, or unspoken hurt can create distance that feels hard to bridge.
You may be experiencing:
Loss of physical intimacy or mismatched desire
Feeling emotionally disconnected or misunderstood
Shame or discomfort around touch or sex
Fear of vulnerability or rejection
Desire to deepen connection beyond routine
In Victoria’s deeply relational culture, couples often seek support to rekindle connection — not just in the bedroom, but in the bond itself.
Intimacy Counselling Is More Than Sex Therapy
While we can certainly explore physical intimacy and sexuality, intimacy counselling also includes:
Emotional attunement and expression
Exploring attachment wounds and fear of closeness
Communication around desire, consent, and pleasure
Identifying and releasing blocks to intimacy
Creating rituals of connection and presence
This is a safe space to be real, and to connect from that space of authenticity.
Tools to Rekindle Connection
In our work together, couples can:
Learn how to initiate closeness with confidence
Develop rituals for emotional check-ins and non-verbal connection
Understand their intimacy cycles and patterns
Reconnect with sensuality, safety, and playful energy
All sessions are offered in-person and online, accessible to couples across Victoria, Vancouver Island, the Lower Mainland, the Okanagan, and all of British Columbia.
Intimacy Counselling in Victoria, BC and Online
Whether you’re feeling miles apart or just slightly out of sync, I offer intimacy-focused couples counselling that is gentle, collaborative, and body-aware.
Book a free consultation to explore how you can reconnect.
"Intimacy is not about proximity — it’s about presence."
Testimonials
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As she divinely balances the elements of strength and sensitivity, she effortlessly invited me into a space of higher consciousness; where I could experience clarity and see myself as a peaceful being.
E.M.
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I definitely recommend anyone who is looking for methods outside of the conventional avenues to contact Flowa!
A.M.
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I have been inspired and humbled by her simple and powerful ways.
K.A.
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Her professional attitude and personable spirit were so welcome and we came out feeling 200% and so content. We highly recommend Flowa.
J.L.
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We love Flowa. She is a brave and wise soul offering her gifts to the world.
J.M.
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Flowa is extremely kind, thoughtful, and caring. She has much experience and wisdom with many different modalities and situations.
M.S.
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Flowa is lovely to work with. I felt very comfortable and able to relax into it her facilitation. She’s a great holder of space, and you’re sure to feel safe and enjoy the time to go deeper.
D.K.
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Flowa is a kind and loving teacher who has ancient wisdom of the heart. She uses compassionate listening as she helped me observe my thoughts and perceptions with curiosity releasing all judgments. She meets you where you're at on your journey. I highly recommend Flowa. She is intuitive and lives with integrity.
W.M.
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Flowa is an incredibly kind, caring and powerful individual. She truly cares about her clients and it's clear to see how much of an impact she has on their lives and wellbeing. I would highly recommend her for anybody seeking a professional, heart-based space-holder.
F.K.
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Flowa will inspire you. She will open your life in directions you may not have seen before. A path to follow that will lead you to a happier, more liberating and accepting life style. One where you're more open minded and present than you thought possible. So grateful I got to cross paths with her.
B.T.
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The energy Flowa brings is healing alone, but she's also got a strong intuition and uses effective techniques that bring about positive change as well. Through my time knowing Flowa I can honestly say I've become lighter as her advice has helped me, she inspires me, and her knowledge teaches me. I highly recommend booking a session if you're interested and haven't done so already!
R.B.
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We've had a wonderful, positive experience with her, and would not hesitate to see her for any future needs.
R.T.
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I would recommend Flowa to anyone. She is an expert at creating a warm and accepting space. Her calm, reflective nature permit her to pick up on subtleties and guide your conversation and thoughts towards a new direction.
B.G.
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Flowa is powerful and dedicated in her space. I am at a loss to find adequate words to express my deepest gratitude for Flowa. I would recommend her to anybody who is ready to journey beyond their edges. This woman is the real deal!
C.M.
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Flowa is wise beyond her years and an energetic being of service in the world. Calm, soft-spoken, and easygoing, you wouldn't know the power and space she holds.
R.B.
Let’s Connect & Create Magic
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