Sex Therapy for Couples in Victoria, BC & Online
Sex is so much more than mechanics — it’s connection, attunement, vulnerability, and presence.
Sex Is a Language — What Is Yours Saying?
For many couples, sex becomes a source of stress, confusion, or shame — especially after periods of disconnection, misaligned desire, trauma, or life transitions.
Sex therapy offers a safe, open space to explore what’s not working, what’s missing, and what’s deeply desired — without pressure or judgment.
You might be facing:
A drop in sexual connection or frequency
Mismatched desire or differing libidos
Performance anxiety, pain, or fear around touch
Emotional disconnection affecting physical intimacy
Unspoken desires or shame blocking full expression
When emotional and embodied awareness are valued, couples often seek sex therapy not just to “fix” something — but to rediscover intimacy in all its forms.
What We Explore in Sex Therapy
Sex therapy can include:
Clarifying your sexual story and desires
Communicating wants, needs, and boundaries with care
Navigating libido differences without shame or blame
Reconnecting with sensuality and embodied pleasure
Understanding how attachment, trauma, and nervous system responses shape your sexual dynamic
All work is done fully clothed, verbally, and safely in-person or online — with no physical touch in sessions.
Trauma-Informed, Queer-Affirming, Consent-Centered
My approach is:
Sex-positive, erotic blueprints, and kink-aware
Inclusive of all gender identities and orientations
Shame-free and curiosity-based
Respectful of your boundaries and pace
Together, we’ll gently uncover what’s been stuck or silenced, and move toward a relationship where intimacy feels safe, alive, and chosen.
Sex Therapy for Couples in Victoria, BC and Online
Whether you’re recovering from sexual disconnection or expanding into new intimacy, I offer compassionate, sex therapy for couples across Victoria, Vancouvre, Kelowna,. British Columbia, and Beyond.
Book a free consult to begin the conversation.
"Desire begins with permission — to be, to feel, and to want."
Testimonials
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As she divinely balances the elements of strength and sensitivity, she effortlessly invited me into a space of higher consciousness; where I could experience clarity and see myself as a peaceful being.
E.M.
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I definitely recommend anyone who is looking for methods outside of the conventional avenues to contact Flowa!
A.M.
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I have been inspired and humbled by her simple and powerful ways.
K.A.
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Her professional attitude and personable spirit were so welcome and we came out feeling 200% and so content. We highly recommend Flowa.
J.L.
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We love Flowa. She is a brave and wise soul offering her gifts to the world.
J.M.
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Flowa is extremely kind, thoughtful, and caring. She has much experience and wisdom with many different modalities and situations.
M.S.
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Flowa is lovely to work with. I felt very comfortable and able to relax into it her facilitation. She’s a great holder of space, and you’re sure to feel safe and enjoy the time to go deeper.
D.K.
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Flowa is a kind and loving teacher who has ancient wisdom of the heart. She uses compassionate listening as she helped me observe my thoughts and perceptions with curiosity releasing all judgments. She meets you where you're at on your journey. I highly recommend Flowa. She is intuitive and lives with integrity.
W.M.
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Flowa is an incredibly kind, caring and powerful individual. She truly cares about her clients and it's clear to see how much of an impact she has on their lives and wellbeing. I would highly recommend her for anybody seeking a professional, heart-based space-holder.
F.K.
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Flowa will inspire you. She will open your life in directions you may not have seen before. A path to follow that will lead you to a happier, more liberating and accepting life style. One where you're more open minded and present than you thought possible. So grateful I got to cross paths with her.
B.T.
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The energy Flowa brings is healing alone, but she's also got a strong intuition and uses effective techniques that bring about positive change as well. Through my time knowing Flowa I can honestly say I've become lighter as her advice has helped me, she inspires me, and her knowledge teaches me. I highly recommend booking a session if you're interested and haven't done so already!
R.B.
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We've had a wonderful, positive experience with her, and would not hesitate to see her for any future needs.
R.T.
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I would recommend Flowa to anyone. She is an expert at creating a warm and accepting space. Her calm, reflective nature permit her to pick up on subtleties and guide your conversation and thoughts towards a new direction.
B.G.
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Flowa is powerful and dedicated in her space. I am at a loss to find adequate words to express my deepest gratitude for Flowa. I would recommend her to anybody who is ready to journey beyond their edges. This woman is the real deal!
C.M.
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Flowa is wise beyond her years and an energetic being of service in the world. Calm, soft-spoken, and easygoing, you wouldn't know the power and space she holds.
R.B.
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