Couples Love Languages Coaching in Victoria, BC
& Online
Speak the languages of Love that your partner understands.
What Are the 5 Love Languages?
The 5 Love Languages — made popular by Dr. Gary Chapman — are:
Words of affirmation
Physical touch
Acts of service
Receiving gifts
Quality time
Each person gives and receives love differently. Love Languages Coaching helps you decode how to connect more deeply, reduce conflict, and increase emotional closeness — in ways that actually land.
How Love Languages Help (and Hurt) Relationships
Knowing each other’s love languages can transform your connection. But when mismatched or misunderstood, they can create:
Unintentional hurt or resentment
One partner giving love, the other not feeling it
Feeling “unappreciated” despite your efforts
Conflict about needs, affection, or emotional giving
In coaching, we explore:
Your individual and shared love languages
How your childhood or attachment style affects love-giving
Adjusting habits to better meet each other’s needs
Reigniting connection through small, meaningful actions
Creating a Shared Language of Love
You’ll receive practical tools and real-time coaching to help you:
Repair after misattunement
Increase affection and appreciation
Identify and shift old patterns of emotional giving
Grow your emotional intimacy and safety
This is a fun, supportive, and enlightening way to deepen your relationship — even if things are already going well.
Sessions are available in-person and online across Victoria, Vancouver, North Vancouver, Kelowna, and all of BC.
Love Languages Coaching in Victoria, BC and Online
Love isn’t always enough — we need to express it in ways that resonate.
Let’s find your shared language and reconnect with intention.
Book your coaching session today.
“You may be saying ‘I love you’ — but are they hearing it?”
Client Testimonials
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— B.T.
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The gifts Flowa possess along with the clear and bright intentions she generously brings to a space are gratefully received by those around her. I am grateful to have met her as she has brought more light into our lives than she will ever know. — R.B.
Working with Flowa was one of the best decisions we’ve made to date. She is a bottomless well of love, positivity, encouragement, and knowledge in her field to say the very least. We have learned more about ourselves with Flowa than we ever knew possible. — J.P.
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The time I had with Flowa has been some of the most beneficial and transformative experiences of my life. — B.R.
Flowa is a tremendous listener, guide, and coach. Her approach to therapy and healing is one that aims to connect mind and body. She seeks to understand and offers affirmations, practices, and new perspectives. I have greatly appreciated her offerings and the calm, present energy that she brings to our sessions. Thank you, Flowa! — B.T.
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We've had a wonderful, positive experience with her, and would not hesitate to see her for any future needs. — R.T.
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I don’t believe what I don’t experience…and based on my experience, I highly recommend Flowa. Thank you, Flowa for being a great example. — M.L.
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Flowa has a pointed accountability that brings out truth and seeks the highest version of someone.
— M.J.
Working with Flowa has helped soften the edges on myself in the way I meet difficulties in my life. She helps make those topics more approachable, smaller, lighter and easier to handle. She exudes a gentle aura of compassion and empathy which make the space more peaceful and helps to dive into sticky or tough emotions. — A.C.
After our time together I felt more embodied and I even noticed my voice was stronger and clearer! Amazing experience!! — K.N.
Flowa allowed me to feel completely safe and at ease as she invited me to track sensations through my body. She inquired with gentleness so I felt totally comfortable in her presence to explore deeper layers of my experience. — K.N.
Flowa is a lovely woman to work with & I felt completely safe supported in every session. With her phsyco-somatic therapy approach, she helped me explore my inner family systems, and heal many of my attachment-style anxieties. — M.W.
Flowa is lovely to work with. I felt very comfortable and able to relax into it her facilitation. She’s a great holder of space, and you’re sure to feel safe and enjoy the time to go deeper. — D.K.
I have been inspired and humbled by her simple and powerful ways. — K.A.
Flowa is an incredibly kind, caring and powerful individual. She truly cares about her clients and it's clear to see how much of an impact she has on their lives and wellbeing. I would highly recommend her for anybody seeking a professional, heart-based space-holder. — F.K.
I appreciate her multi-method approach as well as the presence she brings. I admire her commitment to her own practice and to serving others. — D.K.
Flowa is powerful and dedicated in her space. I am at a loss to find adequate words to express my deepest gratitude for Flowa. I would recommend her to anybody who is ready to journey beyond their edges. This woman is the real deal! — C.M.
She embodies presence and I always feel like she genuinely cares and truly listens. She has a strong foundation in spirituality and science and she's constantly learning more herself. I find her curious and open nature is instrumental in helping others. Flowa has an expansive set of skills. It is always a joy to learn from her! — D.M.
Flowa’s light shines so bright and she is such a lovely human to be around. I don’t know many other people that can put you at such ease. I appreciate her authenticity and wealth of knowledge. What a gift to any community. — T.D.
Flowa spends great time and depth in discerning the most qualitative questions to pierce any resistance — J.M.
Wow this woman is powerful! I was able to dive deep into places I constantly avoided. I felt so much love and support from her and her caring heart. I am so full of gratitude that I had experienced it all. I highly recommend this amazing woman! Thank you so much Flowa. — K.I.
Flowa’s light shines so bright and she is such a lovely human to be around. I don’t know many other people that can put you at such ease. I appreciate her authenticity and wealth of knowledge. — T.D.
Flowa was extremely knowledgeable, kind, and patient as a therapist. I would recommend her to anyone wanting to better understand themselves or just needing an empathetic ear to listen. — J.J.
Flowa is wise beyond her years and an energetic being of service in the world. Calm, soft-spoken, and easygoing, you wouldn't know the power and space she holds. — R.B.
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